| Bad Haircut: Survival Techniques |
| Karen Marie Shelton |
| Date: 5/1/2002, 8/5/2002 |
Introduction
It happens when you least expect it. Usually it happens right
before a very important event where photographers will be out in
force. Sometimes it happens with a long time trusted expert at
the helm. What is "it"? It is a dreaded bad
haircut that can ruin a long string of days with just a few snips of a
scissors.
While there are many ways to avoid getting a bad haircut before it
happens, once you have one, there are some instant remedies that will
take you from geeky to glam in no time.
The key to bouncing back from a bad cut is to remember that your
hair will recover despite how bad you think it looks. Don't let a bad
cut ruin your life.
Here are some ways to get on with your hair life:
1. Don't panic
Although you may have hated your horrid new style the minute you saw it,
take a deep breath and remain calm. Hair may actually go into a
temporary state of "chop shock" immediately after it is cut. Give
your hair a few days to relax into the new style. You may
discover that your initial anxiety was unfounded and your hair is
falling nicely into place.
If a few days pass and your hair is still giving you nightmares, be
prepared to try some new cut coping options.
2. Cry your eyes out
OK, so your hair looks like hell and doesn't seem to be
recovering from the big cut. It could be
worse. While it's okay to indulge yourself in feeling angry or
bad about your hair, minimize the negativity. Call your best buds,
rant and
rave. Have a good old fashioned cry and then move on. Stop
obsessing or whining about it. Trust me, your
hair will grow back. Don't let a rotten crop rain on your daily parade.
3. Forgive yourself and your stylist
Don't get wrapped up in the blame game. While its good to
evaluate what went wrong so you can avoid it again, forgive
yourself and your stylist and move on.
4. Investigate minor cut tweaking
If you received the cut from your regular stylist immediately call
them and discuss your disappointment. Remember, even the best
stylist in the world has a bad day. Give them the benefit of the
doubt and be willing to let them try and tweak the style to your
satisfaction. If you trust your stylist ask them slightly
"adjust" the cut to even out the rough spots. Most
stylists will tweak a bad cut without 48 hours without additional
charge. This will only happen if you politely speak up and ask
for an adjustment. Don't wait too long after the cut.
If you went to an unfamiliar stylist you may want to forgo the
tweaking since it might only make matters worse.
Consider contacting another trusted stylist. Ask them for
suggestions on equalizing or modifying your new cut. It is amazing what a good stylist can do with a
hair wreck.
5. Make lemonade out of lemons
I believe that when life gives you lemons, you can have fun making lemonade. Being
positive really helps in any bad situation. Not only does it make you feel better, it gives you
the opportunity to learn new ways to style your hair.
Set aside some private time, drag out all your hair styling
tools and play with some new looks. It can help you pass the time
while your hair grows out. Styling products like volume
enhancing mousse or extra strength gel can work wonders on instantly changing limp
locks into luscious fat
locks. A good straightening or defrisant
balm can remove the frizzies for a smooth,
sleek shiny cap.
Experiment with hot
rollers or styling
irons to achieve a different texture
and movement. Hair will often "snap out" of funk
with added flow.
Use gel on wet hair to create faux dreads or soft sensual
spikes. Play with a magnificent Meg Ryan tousled bedhead do or go with a
wet look and slicked back bangs or sides.
If your hair is long enough, experiment with tiny
braids or crimped strands to give yourself a brand new funky style you
can have fun with.
6. Get the biggest bang for your bucks
Sometimes a bad haircut can be directly related to horrible
bangs. Your fringe may be cut too short or appear to be uneven.
If your bangs are too short you can opt for several options such as
changing your part, wearing your bangs tousled or altering them
so that your bangs deliberately take on an asymmetric look.
Clip-on bangs are now available at some of the larger beauty
supply stores. Celebrities love them as displayed by Mai Ling
and Jennifer Lopez at recent celebrity award shows.
Another option is to add multidimensional streaks to your bangs to
give them depth and new interest. While you are at it, crank up
your eye make-up to take advantage of the new focal point.
7. Clip on a tail
If you still can't do a thing with your new do, head for the
nearest beauty supply and check out the latest clip-on ponytails,
braids and dreadlocks. If you want to crank up your playfulness
quotient, experiment with some of the hot new fun wigs in platinum or glam
colors. A good clip-on or wig will buy you some stealth mode
time for your growing strands.
If you are more traditional you can select from an incredible array
of human hair and synthetic wigs that can be
ordered to accurately match most hair colors and styles. If you opt
for the more traditional wig path be sure to work with a stylist that
can help you get a perfect.
8. Extend yourself
Britney, Christina and JLo do it. More celebrities
than you can count do it too. Human hair extensions that are
applied by a skilled expert can instantly transform your look from
horrendous to heavenly. High quality extensions can be pricey
and should not be undertaken lightly. If your rotten cut is really
ruining your life, carefully chosen extensions might just be the best
solution for you.
9. Pop a pill
No, hair
vitamins will not instantly add 6 inches to your newly shorn
locks. However, it will help maximize
your genetic hair growth
rate and to help you grow
super healthy new strands. Consider adding a good essential
fatty acid to your daily vitamin count which will help to internally condition
new strands.
10. Accessorize
Use hair clips, barrettes, jeweled hairpins and headbands to camouflage
uneven layers. Brush haphazard bangs to one side and clip with a
hot new comb. While not show off your ability to make the best
of a bad hair situation? Grab the latest fashion headgear as a last
resort and only if you really must.
11. Get out of the house
Avoid the temptation to let your bad hair experience prevent you
from enjoying your life. Don't pass up a special social event
just because your hair looks less than perfect. Spend some time
before the event practicing some cool ways to equalize your challenged
hair. Then go out and enjoy yourself.
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