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February 2003
Revised 5/25/07

February 21, 2003
Fried Bridal Hair? 

Question

Dear Karen,

I am getting married in approximately six months and my bra length hair is totally fried from constant color mishaps.  I have flipped from blonde to red to brunette back to blonde all in a matter of months.  My hair is completely parched and the ends are a frizzy mess.  I am not sure if I should just cut all the hair off and grow it back for the wedding or if I should go ahead and try to have it colored into a more appropriate bridal color.  Any suggestions? 

Ellie, Houston, Texas 

Answer

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  It is always wise to try and plan your hair care for a big event as far in advance as possible.   

While dealing with damaged, frizzy ends is definitely a priority, I would definitely recommend that you keep as much of your length as possible.  Cutting your hair more than a few inches to remove damaged ends might be regrettable. Most hair only grows an average of ½ inch per month and a loss of several inches could not be regained in time for your wedding in six months.  A much shorter or completely different style may be too dramatic for your wedding.  This can especially be true if you have already selected your dress and headpiece for the nuptials.   

Color correction can be miraculous in the hands of an expert.  Existing colors can be stripped and more appropriate colors can be reintroduced removing brassy, trashy hues.   

Why not make a formal appointment with your most trusted stylist or hair care professional for a consultation to discuss your current color and other strand problems.  Book a paid consultation as soon as possible and explain that you want to use the time to formulate a long-range color and conditioning plan for your wedding. Stress the fact that the consultation will only be for talking and planning and not taking any hair actions. 

Regardless of what you and your hair consultant decide to do for your own hair, consider the following tips for dealing with your bridal hair: 

  • Don’t wait until the last minute to deal with hair color issues.  Take action immediately.  The longer you wait to formulate a plan to repair and revive your hair, the less time your hair has to recover in time for your wedding.
  • Don’t try and correct your current color problems by yourself.  Your bridal status puts you front and center of your wedding and demands expert assistance from a knowledgeable stylist or colorist to achieve spectacular hair color results.
  • Be prepared for your consultation by providing your hair consultant with your wedding date along with photos of your dress.  If possible, provide some ideas of how you wish to have your hair styled for your wedding.
  • Unless you plan on getting married on reality TV, stick with a hue that is soft, shiny and subtle.  Healthy glossy hair works perfectly with just about any bridal attire.
  • Stick with a color that is close to your current color.  Keep in mind that selecting completely different hair color will impact your make-up and jewelry. 

Keep in mind that it took you some time to trash your color and your hair’s condition.  Understand that it may take a series of appointments before your hair looks at its best.  The actual initial color correction process may also take many hours to complete.  

Be sure to discuss all of these issues at your initial paid consultation.  Not only can you budget the necessary time for your appointments but you can examine how it will impact your overall wedding budget. 

Best wishes,

Karen


February 15, 2003
Low Thyroid - Hair Loss?

Question

Hi Karen,

I live a very stressful life with lots of professional and personal responsibilities.  Over the past few months I have noticed my hair getting very dry and scratchy.  I have also noticed that a lot more is falling out that normal and I am slowly gaining weight.  My doctor thought that it might be my thyroid but the tests came back border-line.  I am not on medication and my doctor told me not to worry.  A friend told me that I should look at taking guggul to help even out my thyroid and help my hair.  Any suggestions? 

Maggie, Las Vegas, Nevada

Answer

Dear Karen,

A lot of your symptoms are definitely the same as those suffered by people with malfunctioning thyroid glands.  Since I am not a doctor and can begin to suggest what is happening with your thyroid, I can recommend that you find a specialist in the treatment of thyroid challenges and ask for a much more sensitive test.  Sometimes standard tests will not be able to accurately detect if your thyroid is producing the proper amount of triiodothyronie (T3) and thyroxine for your body’s needs.  Specialists often have more sophisticated testing methods that can detect a problem when other tests don’t catch the deficiency. 

Would guggul known also as Commiphora Mukul help your hair problems?  It is hard to say for sure.  It is true that in various published animal studies that guggul has been proven to help stimulate thyroid action through the increase of enzymes that help thyroid hormones.  It has also been proven that phosphate salts can help prevent dips in T3 in some people.   

Obviously anything that helps the thyroid could potentially help hair problems that are specifically related.  I would never recommend that you self medicate with either supplement until you first request a retesting of your thyroid.  While I am not aware of any published dangers to taking guggul or phosphate salts, I would not agree to the wisdom of taking any herbal components unless you have a clear idea of the problem you are trying to address. 

Why not find a thyroid specialist and ask for the administration of more sensitive thyroid testing.  If the results are the same, consult a herbalist or other alternative physician for personalized advice on how guggul might be utilized by your body. 

Best wishes,

Karen


February 20, 2003
Big Ears - Updo?

Dear Karen,

How do I convince my beautiful daughter that she shouldn't wear her hair in an updo because she has inherited her dad’s large ears? She's a beautiful young woman, but doesn't seem to realize how much better she looks with her hair down.

Mrs. L, Phoenix, Arizona

Answer

Hi,

It is very true that not everyone looks good in updos.  There are many reasons from face shape, hair texture, hair length and even the size of facial features.  Some types of chins and the size of the ears can definitely impact how well an updo works for someone. 

Unfortunately many people believe that the only way to dress up their hair is to wear it in an updo, regardless of how well if looks on them.  And yes, this can definitely be a touchy situation. 

Try having your daughter do several "dress rehearsals" with different updo styles and suggest she ask her friends to help her pick the best style to match the event and her gown. They can help steer her away from a look that might not be as flattering. 

If your daughter still insists on wearing her hair in an updo you can try the following tips:

1. Suggest that a clear type of tacking tape (like they use to hold breasts in place for low cut gowns in Hollywood) or make-up adhesive is used to tack the ears close to the head. 

2. Strongly encourage your daughter to wear a light veil of "tendrils" around her hairline and face. Make sure the tendrils nestle around the ears to minimize them and that the ear area remains covered.

3. Suggest that your daughter wear her hair in an updo with the sides smoothly pinned over her ears in a smooth sweep. Flowers work wonders with an updo when pinned down around the face line and near the ears to minimize.

4. Use makeup to minimize any areas of the ears that could benefit from shading. This should be a last resort after all else fails.

If all else fails, understand that sometimes people have to experience something to gain perspective.  The same can be true with hair color or inappropriate hair styles.

Best wishes,
Karen Shelton


February 10, 2003
SLS - Causes Cancer? 

Question

Dear Karen

I have gotten so many emails that warn about Sodium Lauryl Sulfate (SLS) being dangerous and causing cancer that I am not afraid to shampoo my hair or brush my teeth.  What do you know about this controversy?

Sabrina

Answer

Dear Sabrina

According to Ed, a medical doctor who runs a web site to debunk the urban myth email claims, Sodium Lauryl Sulfate (SLS) is NOT, according to his research, a cancer risk. 

As Ed explains it "Lauryl sulfate is made by joining sulfate and lauric acid, two substances which are both abundant throughout the body in health. It is a good solubilizing agent and is also used in acrylamide gel electrophoresis". 

Ed also points out on his web site, linked above that "Laureth" indicates ethoxylation ("lauryl" on one side of the sulfate group, an ethyl ether on another). 

Sodium lauryl sulfate (the same as sodium dodecyl sulfate) is routinely used to solubilize chemicals used in cancer experiments prior to injecting them into test animals. Somebody read the list of substances injected, and mistook the solubilizer for the active ingredient.

If you visit Ed's site and read it you will realize that it is very likely that the SLS cancer rumors are just that.

Best wishes,

Karen


February 5, 2003
Spray Bottles For Oils? 

Question

Dear Karen

I have been reading your various hair and beauty articles since 1999 and I love them.  I have learned so much and appreciate all your willingness to help consumer like me.  I read about using various carrier oils to "oil" the ends of my waist length hair to prevent split ends. 

I like the results but am wondering if I might spray the oils on my ends instead of using my fingertips.  Can you find bottles for spraying carrier and essential oils?  If so, where might I look?

Thanks,

Samantha

Answer

Dear Samantha

Some massage therapists use a pump bottle sprayer that is plastic to apply their carrier/essential oil formula to client's bodies during massage. 

I actually was skeptical the first time I saw a therapist use such a bottle but over the years I have discovered that the oil is more evenly distributed on the skin and it gives her more glide thus a better massage. 

These oil spray massage bottles are usually available from massage therapy supply stores.  I suggest that you search under "Massage Therapy" suppliers on the Net as a starting point.

A chef friend uses a spray bottle for applying olive, sesame and other oils to foods.  He buys his oil spray bottles (he has both glass and plastic) at gourmet or chef supply stores.

When I mix my own aromatherapy formulas I use the  2 oz amber glass bottles that come with spray caps and matching lids.  These are available at many large health food stores.

You can also use small squirt bottles in the cosmetic sections of large department stores or places like The Container store that specializes in selling empty containers.

Or be creative and buy Mason Jars and a new pump from a beauty supply store and fashion your own pump bottle.

Best wishes,

Karen


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